We have feelings..

emotions

In the past couple of weeks I’ve had quite a few conversations that have resulted in the statement being made along the lines of: 1. I didn’t think my words affected him 2. He’s a man – this shouldn’t’ bother him 3. He just needs to man up – and …

Marriage is the art of ‘Cathexis’

What would you tell yourself?

I’ll be the first to tell you that marriage “scared” me, and it took me quite a while to get over my mental blocks and move forward with entering into a lifetime commitment.  During that time I sought out individuals who were divorced, married, and everything in between.  My rational …